How can people chastise me for not knowing who I am, and constantly changing myself and my views when I don’t even know what I want for dinner? Let alone one of the more difficult understandings in life. . .
I feel blah.
How can people chastise me for not knowing who I am, and constantly changing myself and my views when I don’t even know what I want for dinner? Let alone one of the more difficult understandings in life. . .
I feel blah.
Prolly because they percieve your net-self as your true and only self, and therefore judge you based on that. Or something. If that’s what you’re even talking about… o.0
The answers:
a) They know who they think they know and how they like to know them;
b) They want to help, but they also have a desire to lecture, chastise and condemn;
c) It is not them, but their mothers talking;
d) It has to do with crop circles;
e) Answer a, b, c or d.
whether you express yourself online or physically to others, people will always have this impression of that certain person…we are all critics in our own morbid ways…and just like Stella said, it could be perhaps that a lot of people think that you’re TRULY Who you are b/c you only want to speak the truth, no??
okee so i’m guilty of assuming certain things about a person..but when it’s perceived directly and clearly, how else am i supposed to think??? it’s not like your messages and entries are cryptic that you make us figure out the enigmatical side of you Kim..you speak from the heart, and so, we ASSUME that that’s what you meant — at the time of the post… =\ oh blah..i’m confuuuuusin myself now!
ahhh let those people think what they think..but your real friends and loved ones will only know who YOU are…shouldn’t that count for something? ^_^
btw, u look so cute in your cam pic!! *pinch cheeks* hehehehe!
I guess to answer this question, you have to think about all of the prejudices you have on people due to things that they’ve done or said in the past. Perhaps gaining acceptance as you change means learning to accept those who have also done the same?
because it is easier for them to criticize who you are than to figure out who they themselves are. by the way, you’re captivating.
there are those that percieve you as what you put up. they have half of the story and make assumptions about the rest. sometimes life just throws out things and people don’t want to know you’re about cause they’ve passed their judgement on you. not like i’m a wealth of knowledge or anything.
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