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March 24, 2006 at 6:22 pm · Filed under Rigamarole

Rebounds…
Are they worth it?

Since the breakup, though I have all my friends around me, there are still times when I feel a bit lonely in that I want to have someone next to me kind of way. In a way it’s all the sharper because all my friends are his friends too, and in the past year I hardly remember times being with them without him being there.

So the loneliness, coupled with the fact that my self-esteem and self-value has been shot to hell has made me begin to contemplate having some kind of rebound relationship.

Not even anything fancy, but just something to reaffirm to myself that I can be desirable to someone in some way.

Questioning…

… the only thing is, is it worth it? Am I emotionally prepared to have a rebound? If I do take a rebound should I do it with someone I actually like or someone who’s somewhat a stranger?

Even if I’m emotionally ready for a rebound in the near future, would it be worth the possibility of hurting another person because of my selfishness?

Are rebounds worth the possible repercussions?

franksabunch said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:24 am

I don’t think so… :-(  But they are t

franksabunch said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:25 am

Holy smokes!  Sorry about that glitch.  I meant to say, I don’t think so… :-(  But they are tempting.

yewj said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:28 am

i think it depends. a rebound can turn into a bf. it should be if you’re ready or not. once you meet someone you’ll know if you’re ready or not. plus u learn from ur mistakes. u live and u learn!! =P
have a great weekend!! =)

AristotleForDummies said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:30 am

you don’t need to hook up with some stranger to affirm that you are desirable.  first, that proves nothing, because a guy that would do that would hook up with anyone; it wouldn’t mean that you’re that special.  second, I’ll be the first of I’m sure many who will tell you that you’re attractive and smart and too good for that.

NestleTollHouse said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:32 am

Just as long as you don’t hurt the other person (b/c you know all too well what it’s like to be hurt), it’s fine.

seanscheng said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:39 am

There’s a reason for the Casual Encounters section on Craigslist… sounds perfect for ya! jk. Don’t do it, it’ll just be a temporary elixir. You need to heal up on your own first.

cantBfaded said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:40 am

if it’s any reassurance…i’d hit it (you)

crystalt728 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:43 am

I don’t know from personal experience, but it doesn’t sound like a good idea to me. Good luck!!

wutuwaitn4 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:47 am

there’s max!

cantBfaded said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:52 am

come down here and use me already…

CaKaLusa said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:53 am

date Dan the Man

iluvballet2006 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:56 am

oh hi i like ur lay out comment back

eklipse126 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:03 am

I always try to restrain myself from rebounding, but damn, sometimes I just wanna get out there and date someone for the heck of it.

jimmiwin said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:05 am

Yeah, that’s really not necessary for reaffirmation. Just look in the mirror and say “You’re good enough, you’re smart enough and doggone it, people like you!”Seriously, rebounds are doomed from the beginning because you’re going in knowing it’s a rebound, thus dooming it yourself by pigeoning holding any possibility of any “real” relationship.

nuedy said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:07 am

you can’t help rebound.  rebounds are bound to happen after a break-up.  my boyfriend right now is my current rebound of two years…so you never know what could happen. ;)

misstease said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:16 am

there is nothing wrong with rebounds. its all a part of dating and relationships.

davidngo said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:18 am

i wouldn’t suggest pursuing a relationship that clearly is a rebound.  it’s tough cause you are used to having a bf and having that intimacy with someone. that closeness. and because of that sudden absence, it can make you feel very lonely at times.  but i think its sort of a “growing pain” you have get through. cause it’s very important for you to be single and realize that you really DON’T need another person to make you happy.  that you can survive on your own.  and that having a boyfriend or a relationship should only be to ENHANCE your life and make you happier…not be the sole source of that happiness.  Enhancement, not dependency basically.
anyways, i’ll take my Dr. Phil hat off.  take it easy shi-zy

aydongbeeleef said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:24 am

i have no advice, though i think you’re the first person on earth to think about rebounding and weigh it’s possible pros and cons.most people just.. do it.

aydongbeeleef said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:25 am

…on earth to actually think about… …pros and cons, beforehand.-yep

spygirl4 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:30 am

it never bodes well when you go looking for a rebound because by definition, it just won’t work out. i think the term best use is in hindsight when you realize after the fact (and after best efforts) that things didn’t work out. of course, that’s how it should be, but this is real life.

SquallR said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:31 am

from personal experience, no. it’s not. I wasn’t part of the rebound, but the guy who had to watch it happen. no. it’s not. don’t date someone you don’t care about. Most likely, they wouldn’t care about you either. And if they did, you’d have to tell them that you didn’t care.then they’d need a rebound, and then the vicious cycle continues.

im_floating said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:34 am

from personal experience, it really depends. sometimes, you end up really caring for the other person whereas sometimes, they end up falling for you and its another whole messy breakup. so, probably not. i do have to admit, they are fun tho. =T

Kwazy_Fweak said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:50 am

guys heads are their penises, therefore we won’t be thinking..if you want a rebound it’ll be “okay, sweeet, booty call”.i don’t think it’s worth the hurt and confusion.

bjtdevera said,

March 24, 2006 @ 11:55 am

rebounds are only ok if the other person knows it’s a rebound too. Mutual reboundationismicity.

M_S_T_A said,

March 24, 2006 @ 12:09 pm

 Just checking out your site. I think you should give it a try. There might be a chance of getting hurt but there is always a chance it could work out. Life is full of different and wonderful chances to make your life better. Good luck and have a great weekend.

ch50 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 12:40 pm

because after a long relationship like you had your no where near ready to kick up new feelings and relations for some one eles.
you still ahve to sort out the other relationship.

Slutburger_with_Cheese said,

March 24, 2006 @ 12:51 pm

What the fuck is with all these people giving serious advice, like we’re all best friends.
If you want a rebound, I’m Dennis Rodman.

onestyle said,

March 24, 2006 @ 12:51 pm

honestly? i think it’s socially irresponsible to toy with other people’s hearts. i think, with time, you’ll eventually figure out your self-worth if you go it alone for a while. It’s the tedious path but it has the biggest pay-off

onestyle said,

March 24, 2006 @ 12:53 pm

by the way, i was just looking at the people that have left comments to this post… haha, all dudes. maybe you should stage a xanga contest. winner gets to be your rebound.

Scorpi said,

March 24, 2006 @ 1:00 pm

tsk tsk, in the art of seduction – people fresh off a relationship are prime candidates for seducing and thus starting a new relationship.in fact… i’d set a nice one dollar bet that most relationship are started on a rebound of sorts. seeing as how that first one never quite made it.go forth. enjoy yourself, enjoy your life. you never know, you may fall in love…

altoidaddict88 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 1:40 pm

just go to a bar/club and i’m sure you’ll get plenty of confirmation that you’re desirable…at least physically. seriously though, rebounds are a bad way to go about it. you should date when the right guy (or girl) comes along. reading your past blogs i never would have imagined you to be someone that “needs” to be in a relationship, guess that shows how good of a character read i am. :P don’t worry, it’ll all work out.

airina05 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 1:50 pm

i think it might be a bit too fresh right now. i’ve been single for 2 months and i can’t imagine being with someone else….not even in a rebound sense…but i have made progress, i’ve kissed some boys – but while i still feel somewhat guilty, i know that will go away with time

gr00vy_chic said,

March 24, 2006 @ 2:00 pm

i agree with the one person who commented that you’re probably the first person that’s actually sat down and weighed the pros and cons of a rebound.  if you’re going into it knowing it’s gonna be a rebound then it’s just bound to be a disaster, especially if the guy ends up falling for you and you’re not interested.  if he knows he’s just a rebound and gonna be each other’s bootie call, do you really wanna be with a guy like that?
i actually had a rebound yrs ago after my first love and i broke up after over 3 yrs of dating.  it ended amicably so we were actually each other’s bootie’s call after my rebound.  i ended up falling for some guy and thought i liked him, but then i snapped out of it and came to my senses and realized i’m not even attracted to him and he was so NOT my type.  but he was what i needed at the time to get over my breakup.
good luck whatever you decide.  the pain and lonliness will get better in time.  you’re very pretty and seem to have an outgoing personality.  go out to the clubs and you’ll see how desirable you are when all the guys are lining up to hit on you.

gechalx said,

March 24, 2006 @ 2:02 pm

a rebound is just a technical term for gettin over your past relationship and trying to start a new one.. oh yea you’re welcome to rebound yourself to me anytime. lol =)

altoidaddict88 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 2:36 pm

shhh…don’t let the guys know you’re lonely, that’s when the players will pounce on you…or maybe that’s what you want (need). ;)

Metro said,

March 24, 2006 @ 3:08 pm

Rebounds are a neccessary evil. No sooner will we be over someone than someone else enters the frame, and it’s inevitably going to work out badly for that person, and for you, but you need those. It’s like an illness. Even though you feel better, you still have to take your medication for a few days after to make sure you’re done with it.

Lemon451 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 3:10 pm

Mmm…no. Something shitty always happens and someone always gets shafted. I guess you can have less guilt if the other person knows, but even then, it seems like it’s futile.

imcoveredinrain said,

March 24, 2006 @ 4:03 pm

‘im floating’ said pretty much exactly what i would have said. It’s probably not worth it cos if the rebound doesn’t work it’s just going to add to the problem.

Ssweet_dreemzZ said,

March 24, 2006 @ 4:10 pm

I think it depends on who the guy is, but overall, I don’t think they’re worth it.

deux02 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 4:11 pm

i got over a 4 year relationship and this one chick that was jocking me forever came onto me so strong i had no choice but to rebound on her… we ended it before it got to intense, but be careful and dont just jump on the first piece of ass that comes your way

milhouse75 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 5:24 pm

i am the fuckin’ dennis rodman of dating. so yes, without rebound sex i don’t know where i’d be. just tell the person that you need a rebound… it usually turns out a lot better. then they can’t be like “oh man, i was played like a fiddle…” ’cause you told them the truth. constantly remind him what is going on. the control of the situation/matter at hand and the sheer confidence of knowing you have found yourself a new sex-slave will help you undo your stalled situation. unfortunately for most, sex acts not only as a tool for physical pleasure but also as a source of self-validation. use it wisely… emotions and ambiguity fuck everything up.honestly, have you ever met a dude who constantly gets laid complain about being chronically depressed? you will be doing yourself and whichever lucky male a huge favor. just be honest.

Jarris said,

March 24, 2006 @ 5:31 pm

Rebounds…hmmm…i’ll say from what i know….its only good for the physically relationship……..actually meaning something in a rebound is often not the case……and it does help if both parties involved know that…….i say this because usually when my friends need someone to make them feel good…they turn to me….and i end up comforting them…..which ever way they please…….but we both know its just to feel good and that nothing really grows out of it…….
but thats my two sense..hope it helps

milhouse75 said,

March 24, 2006 @ 5:32 pm

i just realized someone else used the dennis rodman thing… not enough patience to read all 40 comments.also… rebound sex is great. because both sides know what’s going on, you’re basically allowed to go all out and doing what you normally wouldn’t or trying something new should be easier to acchieve. a relationship based purely on sex is one where both parties should continually try heighten the experience: critque each other, bring up new ideas, acchieve fantasies, etc. BASICALLY it’s a a win win situation babe!

Explosion_in_the_Sky said,

March 24, 2006 @ 7:36 pm

First of all, I’ve been reading this for oh, two weeks now, and I am highly amused by your ramblings. Anyway, my boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. While the idea of a rebound seems really really tempting at times, DON’T GIVE IN. If you are in a serious relationship in the future, how can you be honest to this new person about your fickle/flaky decisions in the past? Don’t objectify yourself. Period.

TaiChi_Masta said,

March 24, 2006 @ 8:40 pm

It’s worth it! Do it with a stranger! Let me help you out! I’ll be your rebound! Us not being together right now is hurting me more than you can ever hurt me when you dump me later =P

peachesandcream said,

March 24, 2006 @ 8:53 pm

i don’t see why there would be any reprecussions at all if you go with someone who knows they’re going to be a rebound and is okay with it, and neither of you expect a lasting, really emotional relationship out of the deal. You should also pick a person who is decent enough that you won’t be later ashamed about rebounding with. People don’t give rebounds enough credit. They’re definitely not necessary, and have great potential to get emotionally messy, but I think if you’re careful, they are a temptingly easy way to move on. Of course it’s hard to find someone who meets all of the above requirements– but if the opportunity comes up, I’d take it.

CivicRacr said,

March 24, 2006 @ 8:59 pm

rebounds are meant to build your confidence up. 
eh i dunno, i’ve had feelings for girls after my breakup but nothing ever came out of it.  so my gf count is still 1, heh
but if you think you can be in a rebound relationshipa and not expect too much from it, could be a good thing for short term.

GzeusR said,

March 24, 2006 @ 9:37 pm

depends… i used to think rebounding was good because it meant moving on, but it could also mean just the opposite… i read in cosmo that rebounds can be rooted in insecurity and dependence on having a partner… but anyways, be strong and hope bright skies are heading your way

shirtpuppet said,

March 24, 2006 @ 10:44 pm

depends….i’ve seen it work out ok

simplystine said,

March 25, 2006 @ 3:46 am

i agree with aristotlefordummies. ur beautiful and deserve a real relationship but its ur call.

LoTan said,

March 25, 2006 @ 4:24 am

it’s not worth it.. a relationship isn’t a relationship unless there’s feelings behind it.  

shnznit said,

March 25, 2006 @ 4:41 am

I recently broke up with my girlfriend of one year.  It was a serious relationship that was suppose to end in marriage.  It ended, just not in marriage.  A few months later I came to the realization that I could live with her forever, I could see the two of us being happy together (all I had to do was give up my manhood, freedom, and sanity).  I propsed but she said “No.”  Actually it was some deviation of “fuck no” “no eat shit” “no what the fuck makes you think I”ll take you back” “no you hurt me too much you asshole” and on and on and on.  You get the point.  Thank God there’s a 30 day return policy.
She had 2 rebounds after me.  The first one she cried for 2 days afterwards.  It’s not what she really wanted.  I held off dating because I still loved her.  Now that it’s offically dead as in RIP I know I have to go on.  Yes I”m gonna get me some rebound booty.  I personally don’t believe in it, but being a guy my morality and judgement on sex is somewhat skewed by the fact that my penis has certain needs.  And being a horny bastard I crave sex, the fullfillment of it, the intimacy, the passion.  It makes you feel desired, wanted, and special. 
But what I really long for, what I really miss is the closeness.  Laying in bed  holding each other.  Watching SNL in bed  naked eating Ben and Jerry’s chunky monkey.  The purpose, identity, and comfort  you had in a relationship you’re not going to find in a rebound.  Be sure you know what it is you want and who you are.  Everybody (I”m referring to the people who’ve commented) is different and have different needs, different ways of coping.
You seem to be a very deep, thoughful person.  I’ve read some of your poetry, it’s really quite good.  You’re also very attractive.  You’re not going to have any problems finding a guy.  Never forget all girls have what guys want.  Is having some guy stick his penis inside you going to make you feel “special” or whole or somehow lessen the pain of feeling rejected, betrayed, and abandoned.  For some people it does, for others it doesn’t.
This is the first time I”ve ever commented on anyone’s site.  I feel for you.  I guess I have this empathy thing going on since I got rejected, actually I rejected and then got rejected myself (irony of ironies).  It’s oddly cathardic commenting.  You’re a bright beautiful young women, you’ll be okay.  Watch out for the assholes (which means all men) out there.  Make sure the vultures circling overhead don’t shit on you.  Forget that looser who broke up with you and then went dancing afterwards.  You deserve more, more than him, more than just a rebound.  Good luck. 

HotterBoy said,

March 25, 2006 @ 6:45 am

I am your rebound. Come to me my sexy coquette. I will make you feel like the goddess you are. Yes, it is worth it. I am someone you like and somewhat a stranger. Make me your secret man bitch. ;)~

XLil_Azn_KidX21 said,

March 25, 2006 @ 7:04 am

life is harsh i fell lonley bored angry sad feel like i want to cry and i do for no good reason because i lonley my friends are dum ass and people pic on me dont even no why i was born if i was to cause pain and i made someone cry i heard a saying The one who makes you*cry isnt worth your tearsthe o.n.e  who is worth urtears  would never  makeyou cry then y should i cry making no sense well mabey i made to cause pain

activeAmygdala said,

March 25, 2006 @ 12:32 pm

personally, to face the repercussions are not worth it, not to mention its not healthy.

glamitup_graphics said,

March 25, 2006 @ 3:44 pm

RANDOM PASS =] CHECK MY XANGA OUT.

XLil_Azn_KidX21 said,

March 25, 2006 @ 3:49 pm

go for it mabey u got a chance i would never no till u try

skyfallingtears said,

March 25, 2006 @ 4:28 pm

if the rebound happens to be a friend and no stranger..=D like people said, it would turn into something more
but its a risk really =T and depends how much ur willing to undertake the risk. its like gambling. u could either win more, or lose it more. depends how much u want it.
personally.. i wouldn’t have the guts to do it =T guilt will kill me cuz i would feel like im ‘using’ the guy. but innocent flirting with a few wont hurt (; haha.

GNRxBeauty said,

March 25, 2006 @ 4:44 pm

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March 25, 2006 @ 4:53 pm

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RekkaShinOrei said,

March 25, 2006 @ 5:39 pm

davidngo said it best. 
Otherwise, I’d give it some time before I do anything rash.  Rebounds could “bounce back” with twice the damage..or, you could stumble on something good…but the chances are highly questionable.  I say that not to be pessimistic, but because I personally couldn’t see myself trying to open up with the Rebound while I’m still sulking on the inside from my recent break-up.  I have too big of a guilty conscience to do that to someone. 
Secondly, if you get a Rebound immediately it would be too obvious which would ultimately add to the humiliation and dejectedness of your hurt pride and self-esteem.  That is, if your Ex and/or his friends found this amusing or pathetic. 
Or, your Ex may find this hurtful and will do the same in competition with you.  Then you will have fustration and jealousy with him and his Rebound.  This could get nasty and turn into an absolute hateful ending to your relationship with him.
Adding an extra person (Rebound) to this stressful situation could ultimately make things worse.  If you two ever got back together, then you have this whole embarrasing explanation to do. 
The question is, do you want to leave with natural heartbroken-ness or take the chances of shaming what you had with him by having a Rebound?  Hurtful honesty takes perseverence and maturity and I personally feel that this characteristic always prevails over spitefulness and indignant actions.  Who knows, if he sees that you’re sincere about what you had with him and how you currently feel without him, maybe he’ll eventually come back around to you. 
Best wishes.

Wubie said,

March 25, 2006 @ 5:55 pm

Personally, I don’t think there is anything wrong with having rebounds, it’s a natural part of going out, just remember that your not in rebounds to get what your really looking for, or it might turn out worse. You have plenty of time and plenty of choices, you will find what your looking for, and on another note, usually things sorta fall into place anyways ~hope ya feel better :)

sweetest_allure said,

March 25, 2006 @ 6:10 pm

rebound…hmm..just went thru that..i hate myself for it but i ran rite into this guy’s arms after my breakup..i was unsure at first..but i really like him now..
so i say yea…once past all the confusion..if u can pull through..u never know what u may get by just taking a chance

ChinaPrep said,

March 25, 2006 @ 6:33 pm

dont get some guy and use him as a rebound.. that’s not fair to him and yourself. give yourself time to heal. once you are over your ex.. you will be ready to move on and find someone who is better for you.

Brett_T said,

March 25, 2006 @ 6:46 pm

The only time you should even think about a rebound is in basketball.

projectblogsphere said,

March 25, 2006 @ 6:56 pm

Rebounds are okay so long that you don’t lose track that the relationship will not go anywhere.  Right now, you’re just looking for whatever that fills that void… and anything/anyone that does is “perfect”, but it isn’t.
… and the only repercussion is that you lose sight of the fact that it’s a rebound relationship.
My two pennies…

UndercoverFaeriePrincess007 said,

March 26, 2006 @ 4:28 am

It’s kind of ironic how almost every question you’re asking yourself right now is exactly what I’m asking MYself, and all the things you’re going through are the same things I’m going through. All my friends are his friends too, so everything reminds me of him somehow. Sometimes I feel like there’s no way I can possibly go on with my life without him, even though I know I can. And it all makes me feel like there must be something wrong with me…why else would he break up with me?On the other hand, MY relationship was only two and a half months long, so I can only IMAGINE how you must feel…In my opinion, I don’t think a rebound is a good idea. I know I’ve considered it–I’ve felt like, if I don’t get someone new RIGHT AWAY, I never will. In the long run though, you’ll only end up hurting yourself or hurting someone else. I think you just need to give yourself time and wait for the right person to come along…I really hope things work out for you…feel better! ^_^

nofa1r said,

March 26, 2006 @ 7:52 am

oh you ARE desirable. dont ever question that.eh, rebounds. they are more trouble then they are worth.

zeroleader said,

March 26, 2006 @ 9:21 am

i’d say at this point you have enough life experience to be mature about a rebound =) so do what you need to! you never know how things will turn out

alanism said,

March 26, 2006 @ 11:16 am

the only cure for oneitis is going out with 3. it’s like you lose or get your most favorite expensive shirt, you probably won’t find one just as cool immediately but 3 lesser shirts is still good retail therapy.

keneke said,

March 26, 2006 @ 12:57 pm

rebounds are selfish and often inconsiderate. well, unless it’s completely mutual and totally understood by both parties. even then the use of another person as a “tool” seems a bit perverted. =/

yerbabygirl said,

March 26, 2006 @ 6:17 pm

The sad thing about rebounding, is that the other person might not know you’re rebounding. 

It hurts to be led on.  And the amount of guilt you feel after the rebound is nothing compared to their disappointment.

(I’ve rebounded once, and I feel badly for it)

BlindButDriving said,

March 26, 2006 @ 8:36 pm

No, they aren’t worth it. No sense in adding to any drama.
Just keep yourself surrounded with trustworthy friends, that’s all you need.

whonose said,

March 27, 2006 @ 2:17 am

Wow – sorry I havent been here in a while, and so much has happened!
I hope you can hug your hoodie in the meantime…

jasonpho said,

March 27, 2006 @ 1:46 pm

ask yourself this question “What would Jack Bauer do?” and you will find your answer…

supanova1000 said,

March 27, 2006 @ 2:13 pm

Nice site….wuts up Shi, i was in a similar situation…rebounds are a double edged sword. It works wonders but if your not careful can cut you up pretty bad.

deep2000 said,

March 27, 2006 @ 3:56 pm

i’ve had that tooo…but it didnt work…but it is up to you….

thepinkblog said,

March 28, 2006 @ 1:29 pm

I randomly read your blog, so we don’t know each other. I just want to say, never doubt your self-worth. I wish you the best of luck =)

dehzep said,

March 28, 2006 @ 8:38 pm

ask dennis rodman.  he was the rebound king on the courts.

irenaeusanthony said,

March 28, 2006 @ 11:52 pm

cheer up. 
laugh.
cry.
things like this happens.
you gotta go through it and live with it for a while… this loneliness and emptiness.
its for real even though like jealousy, some feelings have no real basis for them except for some kind of psychosis, the pain is real and hurt maybe… but in time we come to terms with it.  contemplating a rebound?  its not real.  its like taking aspirin or ibuprofen for a toothache… its temporary and eventually, you have to get to the root of it…
abstain from relationships and get to know yourself again.  be whole in who you are.  give that anguish up or do something creative with it.  use this time to contemplate and work on your interior spiritual self. 
you are worth more than you can concieve in your mind.  you are worth ten fold to those who love you.

peace

sennio said,

March 29, 2006 @ 10:48 am

If you’re sure that they’re ‘the one’, then yeah.If just to try to mend your heart, then no.

popplepea said,

March 30, 2006 @ 5:53 am

I know what you mean. I wouldn’t know what to suggest because I’ve been in two rebound relationships that weren’t all bad… they weren’t bad at all, and eventually evolved into something serious. But conceptually, I don’t like it.But hey, you ARE desirable! *wink wink*

rice_and_noodles said,

March 30, 2006 @ 11:53 am

Rebounds are worth the repercussions unless that someone is like Brad Pitt.

bjtdevera said,

March 30, 2006 @ 11:53 am

did they really show puppet sex?”You can’t put your finger there…ahhh…put your finger there!””You can be as loud as the hell you want, when you’re making love.”I think i’ve been listening to the soundtrack too much.

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