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Tuesday April 11, 2006 at 11:39 am

Your ideal partner…
What makes one?

I was talking to a friend about what we were looking for in our ideal partners and this post came up. I’m not going to tag anyone, but I thought it might be fun to fill out. :)


Ground Rules: The 1st player of this “game” starts
with the topic “What attracts you the most about the opposite sex” list
7 things! And people who get tagged need to write a xanga entry about
the TOPIC as well as state this rule clearly. In the end, you need to
choose the next 5 people to be tagged and list their xanga IDs. Don’t
forget to leave a comment that says “You are tagged” in their xanga and
tell them to read yours.

-because it was asked: I didn’t write these rules, i stole them from Brentacool.



My List

Wit: It’s never worked out between me and any guy who didn’t at least match me in wit. =] Not to say I’m witty, but if you can’t match me, then it’s kind of sad… Or at the very least, someone who can make me laugh.
Loyalty: Nothing attracts me more than someone who is completely loyal to their friends.
Video games: Don’t have to be good at them, just play ‘em with me. But guys who are good at video games are sexy too.
Intelligence: This may seem the same as wit to some of you, but it’s not. I like someone smarter than me… Or at least someone who can teach me new things.
Anime: Gotta like it, it’s been in my life for 10+ years. :)
Food: It’s one of the most important events of my daily life, and I need someone I can enjoy it with. I’m completely serious about this one.

This last one I didn’t even realize was important to me until recently:

Reading: He needs to read. Not only because I write, but because I read — almost as much as I watch Anime… That, and well-read guys are sexy. :)



Physical Attractiveness

It might be hard for you guys as my readers to believe me [because it’s me saying this!], but physical attraction doesn’t do as much for me as you might think. Both of my long-term relationships have been with guys I didn’t initally find attractive, but somehow that completely changes when I start getting to know their personality.

I guess the more attracted I am to someone on the intellectual level, the more I become attracted to them on the physical level.


What attracts you to the opposite sex?

vampuke said,

April 11, 2006 @ 11:44 am

haha, its 5am and I’m lazy

jimmiwin said,

April 11, 2006 @ 11:46 am

It’s something innate and they either have it, or they don’t. It’s the intangible “it”. That’s the reason you can be attracted to the “wrong” person or not attracted to the “right” one.

dehzep said,

April 11, 2006 @ 11:49 am

the sideways 8. 

trizad said,

April 11, 2006 @ 11:56 am

… i guess i should i do it too.

sayJames said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:00 pm

Nice list you’ve got… but don’t forget “wealth.”  You’ll need money to live comfortably… :-)

AristotleForDummies said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:02 pm

The better she is at “shoots and ladders” the more I like her.

CaKaLusa said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:04 pm

big boobs, a nice face, fat wallet, and rich parents. YEAHHHHH!-.-;

chess_piece said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:06 pm

intelligence…haha…okay okay, legs… :-D

deux02 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:13 pm

what i find most important is kindness in their heart…the greatest relationships I’ve had are with people who arent easily angered and have patience.. basically, think 2nd grade teacher who likes to eat, drink, and be merry :)

zhaoyun1122 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:17 pm

I Think personality makes people much more attractive .. :)

franksabunch said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:18 pm

Someone who can make me laugh.

seanscheng said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:27 pm

Someone who’ll cook me a mean kimchi jjigae minutes after giving me the best [deleted for decency’s sake] of my life, minutes before playing Street Fighter with me.

SensesFail250 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:36 pm

total loyalty to his friends might not be good for the relatinonship in my opinion

airina05 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:37 pm

intelligence is sexy and athleticism

davidngo said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:42 pm

the only place i’m lacking is the food.  i like food…but i don’t have the female passion for it.

summ3r21 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:48 pm

ass

deux02 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 12:48 pm

“In the end, you need to choose the next 5 people to be tagged and list their xanga IDs.” Your rule, yet where are the tags?

gonchoi said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:02 pm

the eyesintellectpersonalitya good heartlooks.. =) (in order of significance.. )

onestyle said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:07 pm

One word: Proportions.some guys are “ass” guys or “tits” guys or “legs” guys, but none of that really matters to me unless its “connected” properly. a proportional body is ideal and so is a proportional mind and soul.a proportional mind is the kind that can think AND feel. thats the most important aspect to me because I grow bored out of my mind if I have to stick to one hemisphere of my brain.

ch50 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:10 pm

looks…of course. but thats not all. they need to have common scence and be free of baby mama drama…and alot of other things.

radjbo said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:13 pm

i’ve done this before.  funny and intelligent guys.  yum.

eklipse126 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:19 pm

anime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

M_S_T_A said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:20 pm

Trust, a sense of humor, can cook, can comfort. Looks arnt really that important but it would be nice to go out with a hunk. lol
These things also apply to the same sex except I wouldnt want a girl to be a hunk. I want them to be a knockout and make everybody else jealous. :-D 

johnchen3 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:28 pm

everything u wrote about yourself matches what most guys look for…well at least i do. looks dont matter too much, who wants to talk to an  attrative piece of log?
but who am i kidding, looks do matter…for guys.

uncommon_guy said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:34 pm

hahahhahaha hmmmm 7 outta 7 and i can read…hot shit..i mean hot damn hahahahhaahha

uncommon_guy said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:35 pm

what are the chances????shrugs…hahahahahahahahha

tHexDonStER said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:53 pm

Loyalty and Video Games Skill and at least some wit. Mostly a girls hairstyle attracts me.

rice_and_noodles said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:55 pm

As long as her face looks alright, and as long as her attitude is alright, I’ll date her.

aradne said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:55 pm

Introspection, thoughtfulness, observant characters. ;-)

general2727 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 1:58 pm

HI SHI,
GREAT POST…CAN I COPY IT AND REPOST IT ON MY XANGA SINCE I WOULD LIKE TO PRESENT THE MALE PERSPECTIVE OF THIS INTERESTING GAME?
THANKS IN ADVANCE, AND DO LET ME KNOW.
PLEASE KEEP YOU YOUR GOOD POSTS HERE AND BEYOND
RESPECTFULLY,
BLUE KNIGHT

bjtdevera said,

April 11, 2006 @ 2:05 pm

I’m attracted to girls who do their laundry once every 2 months.

davidngo said,

April 11, 2006 @ 2:29 pm

ryc:  guess not.  oh well, i’m too much for you to handle anyways ;)

Jarris said,

April 11, 2006 @ 3:24 pm

what is attractive about the opposite sex..hmmm…sense of humor, ready to play anything, open to ideas and experimenting……now i mean that in the best sense possible….and well….just comfortable being herself..and expressing her self…..if a girl can do that…well then…we don’t have a girl, we have a woman….oh and she definite love the romantics…cuz if not….i got work to do….

differentxwinters said,

April 11, 2006 @ 3:37 pm

someone who can make me truly happy, and love me for my crazy self.

onestyle said,

April 11, 2006 @ 5:00 pm

someone who doesn’t meet the requirements on my wish list, but make makes me forget i ever had one.

dianasays said,

April 11, 2006 @ 5:52 pm

hahaha, i could give you paragraphs and paragraphs on what my ideal guy is. i have an entire xanga post dedicated to it. :D

sixdaylanguage said,

April 11, 2006 @ 6:31 pm

Independence.

meemee925 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 6:57 pm

genuineness. i can’t stand people who are so insecure they have to fake their personality. someone who has compassion for people. someone who’s funny. mean people suck. and someone who has meat on their bones. sorry, i can’t skinny girls and i can’t stand skinny guys who look like they couldnt’ carry me or look like i could break them in half.

hijinx7 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 8:33 pm

i think as you get older, what you envision as your “ideal” partner changes. it seems that with age and in most cases, maturity, you begin to realize what aspects are now becoming important to you… oddly enough, the importance of physical appearance no longer seems to rank as high as before. wouldn’t you agree?

JediNg said,

April 11, 2006 @ 8:51 pm

video gamessnowboardingintelligentat least mildly wittyvideo gamer would be cool.fairly conservativetheres too much to name to be honest, lol

O_2627 said,

April 11, 2006 @ 9:06 pm

mustmustmust be able to make me =]

JediNg said,

April 11, 2006 @ 9:15 pm

You can make any girl smile.  Just pinch her cheeks.

wdupITSjustin said,

April 11, 2006 @ 9:30 pm

Natalie Portman in the movie Garden State. 

NoBackstreetboys said,

April 11, 2006 @ 9:42 pm

Your ideal partner has a V.

PsYkOxAzNxFrEaK said,

April 12, 2006 @ 12:11 am

secretly… id like a girl with three nipples!

JediNg said,

April 12, 2006 @ 12:28 am

Not so secret anymore haha.

nofa1r said,

April 12, 2006 @ 4:46 am

what attracts me? you.
okay seriously. i would have to say a sense of humor and being able to get along with my friends. the 2 go hand-in-hand because my friends and i never take anything serious and if the girl is all uptight i cant see myself dating her long term especially if she couldn’t hang with my friends. friendship means alot more then a girl.

YOYOY008 said,

April 12, 2006 @ 6:07 am

If you’re honestly asking me — I wrote about this last month, had a Top 10 [desired] Traits list for my [hopefully eventual] ideal partner in life.

AlExtjAi said,

April 12, 2006 @ 6:13 am

haha, your not quite demanding. Your list/requirements is wayyyy too low/easy. :P

PiNkWaTeR said,

April 12, 2006 @ 6:35 am

their style n attitude!

soft_rain_44 said,

April 12, 2006 @ 6:38 am

the person you just described, aside from the food, I know someone exactly like that. i don’t know how much he enjoys food. i think you two will hit it off.

soft_rain_44 said,

April 12, 2006 @ 11:31 am

i don’t know if you’ve seen him on xanga. His page is frank_the _fish. i’m not sure if he’s into anime either but everything else fits. He’s a looker too. Can’t lose with that guy.

funkdefined said,

April 12, 2006 @ 2:24 pm

only when the physical backs-up the intellectual…
and i’m a sucker for a lady who can shut me down in a verbal arguement,
myself being an attorney-in-training.
oh, and a woman who knows haw to drive stick makes me cream my pantalones.

SleepyBear_253 said,

April 12, 2006 @ 8:33 pm

thats cool!!!!!

welfare_toast said,

April 12, 2006 @ 10:11 pm

Chicks with mustaches make me goo.

milhouse75 said,

April 13, 2006 @ 8:17 am

girls wearing knee pads…add a monicle, and i’m yours.

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