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Tuesday July 12, 2005 at 08:50 pm

I’ve been looking through blogs of old acquaintences lately — just to see what they’re up to… and to see if they’ve changed as much as I have. Some have, some haven’t…. but there was something throughout that I noticed — something that had nothing to do with the actual going-ons of their lives.

I’ve noticed that people who like to write as their pasttimes and people who are good at writing write much (and generally people who enjoy reading a lot) and rarely reveal very much about themselves through their writing. You may catch glimpses of their personalities, and glimmers of their lives, but for the most part, they hide behind their prose.

On the other hand, those who are just as intelligent but aren’t necessarily interested in writing, write as themselves. Their personality shines through and though the angsts may not be as angsty as the good writer, and their happiness may not be as clear as the good writer, you get more a sense of who THEY are, how THEY speak, what THEY want you to hear than the so-called ‘good’ writers.

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Why is this? Is this because good writers are also story tellers, liars? Is it because good writers learn instinctively to not write things that will haunt them later? Or is it because those who are not interested in writing know nothing more than writing as themselves…?

If so, why aren’t the good writers writing as themselves? Are they incapable of doing so because of the switch between writing and speech? Or is it that they choose to do so because they want to portray themselves in writing as someone other than themselves?

It makes me wonder….

Tinatamad2001 said,

July 11, 2005 @ 8:52 pm

I just like the pictures.. :D

wutuwaitn4 said,

July 11, 2005 @ 9:13 pm

i think i’m the former. -_-

Kevin72 said,

July 11, 2005 @ 9:18 pm

I like to share interesting things I see and observe, and can occasionally put me into the story, but it’s a public blog, so I don’t want to be too private and revealing. Also, sometimes I write long comments if someone’s post inspires it.

dudeiambored said,

July 11, 2005 @ 9:25 pm

xangas are stupid

c0rkie said,

July 11, 2005 @ 9:28 pm

finally! an update! :)i stopped writing the way i really am due to stalkers.:)

ManDiva said,

July 11, 2005 @ 9:33 pm

Where do I stand old friend? :)

popplepea said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:13 pm

i agree with the “hiding behind their prose”. They are able to reveal a bit of what state their in without having to evoke unwanted sympathy of readers… i think they’re vain. Haha. I don’t know… we all have those moments.

StoopidSavant said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:14 pm

Perhaps it is because the more you write about your own personal life, the fewer eprops you get.

Smileeta said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:15 pm

you make me wonder, but i’ve noticed that too. :-P  i write like myself, but still keep certain things secretive and mysterious and only those who knows me would know what/who im talking about. :-Poh plus i’m not a good writer and i only know how to write like myself….to much thinking to write good inspirational stuff….lolz

Pai said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:17 pm

oh wow, hi Kim!never though I could browse through a blog ring and find you.

Smileeta said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:18 pm

ooo good point StoopidSavant…:-P but writing about your personal life you get more of your real friends reading versus random strangers just popping in and commenting i suppose. :-)

picassosinatra said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:41 pm

Hmmm…glad you’re back…but apparently you didn’t read mine…hahaha

Tsunaki36 said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:41 pm

its like how good (or want to be good in my case ^~^) photographers try to tell a story with their photos, but still keep private most of their personalityits good to distance oneself from their public art, or critisism could relaly hurt

zeroleader said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:48 pm

i just don’t reveal a whole lot in general through my writing..if you want to know, come ask me. its so much more fun and interactive that way =)

lumpiablog said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:53 pm

i think all the writers here, whether or not they post as themselves, never reveal the full truth. as bloggers, we are exhibitionists, with the power to reveal as little or as much as we want, and we can even switch up the facts if need be. so that makes us selective exhibitionists?the more i write this comment, the less i think these words are my own and the more i think they were probably yours.

auracle said,

July 11, 2005 @ 10:58 pm

“There are no grades of vanity, there are only grades of ability in concealing it.” -Mark TwainMaybe they are writing about themselves and they just like the challenge of doing it in a creative way. Maybe these writers believe the ideas behind their experiences are more important than the experiences themselves. Then again, some people just like making up crap to confuse others.

burningsecrets said,

July 11, 2005 @ 11:20 pm

Good writers have some really deep stuff going on in their head.

Neojin said,

July 11, 2005 @ 11:52 pm

Well, you have your proper writing style, and then you have your chat style writing (whatever you wanna call it!). You know… some people write their entries like they chat on IM? It’s very casual, and yes, probably shows more on how the person act and respond to others. The people who write properly follows a certain standard of writing, similar to writing an essay for school? Am I making sense? I hope so! ;b

kalamai said,

July 12, 2005 @ 12:16 am

think it’s more of people coming at other people sideways for the things they write. i’ve had people think i was writing about crap about them when i already moved onto the next trouble maker.
good writers…bad writers…i don’t think it matters as long as they get their thoughts across. some people use a lot of adjectives, tons of jokes…some just record their thoughts. journals are personal and well…the way we want to remember things…is kinda just that right? we can share our experiences but others will never truly understand our situation unless they were us?

shaolinLFE said,

July 12, 2005 @ 12:28 am

oh! oh!  do me next!  do me next!!

GzeusR said,

July 12, 2005 @ 12:43 am

hey hey kimjust dropping a howdy doostill digging your entriesyou’re one of a kind

whonose said,

July 12, 2005 @ 2:55 am

I wouldn’t say they are liars, but more like exaggerators, since drama needs to come from a small story spun out.
Good to see you back again! Where has Lan got to?

ZESDAGEN said,

July 12, 2005 @ 4:00 am

Some use it to embrace reality while others use it to escape

yupitssean said,

July 12, 2005 @ 4:47 am

your entry, although understandable from the points you mentioned, is actually speculatively one-dimensional without much evidentiary substance.  although i greatly enjoy your amusing, animated, and often crazy entries regarding comedic situations/innuendos, you cannot label another person’s entry as good writers = hide behind their words and reveal little about themselves, simply because he/she fails to construct a similar entry. 
we all have our unique purposes for utilizing this worldwide blogging medium as  a posting forum to a general audience, whether that audience is 50,000 people or just yourself, it is indicative of a personal outlet to those who lay eyes on our written words.  i believe perhaps maybe you should re-think the questions posed because maybe they are not the right ones to be asking.  to take my page for example, i could write about farts-dildos-streaking-street fighting-orgies-racist jokes, post fifty photos of scantily clad women, garner 500 eprops and the admiration of fans around the world.  however instead i get more gratification out of using verbiage as a form of art- prose as a thread of painted ideas and poetry as a stream of abstract thoughts.  creating a vision for others to read and share alike, regardless of where they come from or what their background is.  to me, that is why i choose creative writing as a basis for my entries.
With that all said in one breath, keep up your great posts as it is evident to all of your readers that your imagination is captivating and your humor is contagious. 
cheers!

lauren_ganda said,

July 12, 2005 @ 5:15 am

welcome back ms shi! we write for different reasons – to persuade, to inform, to express, to instruct, to entertain.. i mostly express. good writers have the ability to move through each role seamlessly. but more often than not, i find words clearly laid down, not for the author, but by the author for its readers. there’s nothing wrong with that.. but that’s when writing and reading takes you places. it makes them liars at worse, but in the end that’s what writing is all about. it makes one a creator at best.

bettertomorrow said,

July 12, 2005 @ 5:26 am

hmmm… i say ‘let’s cut the crap’

franksabunch said,

July 12, 2005 @ 5:47 am

I write about myself!!!! =)

CaKaLusa said,

July 12, 2005 @ 6:47 am

Good writers? is there even such a thing? It all depends upon your audience.For those who rarely write about their lives, it’s probably due to protecting their anonymity (I included) from random strangers. Then there are those who do write–but they also leave out what they don’t want you to hear–the negative aspects of their lives. They feed you what you want to hear.

Jack_MeHoph said,

July 12, 2005 @ 7:08 am

It’s not an issue of embracing reality or escaping reality, the fact of the matter is that when you try to articulate your words into something intresting for someone else to read, it turns from casual conversational text into a story. A conversational style of writing will probably contain only necessary facts while a story style blog will contain multiple layers of facts, timing, wit and everything else that makes a story interesting. Also, you have to keep in mind some people would rather post anonymously, so naturally you will get less of the “insightful commentary”.

guitar___riffs said,

July 12, 2005 @ 7:33 am

Hm. Now you made me wonder.I write about myself. But in a book, rather than on my Xanga. But I do mention a thing here or there about myself. Just not in a full blog.

bobaChick said,

July 12, 2005 @ 7:37 am

i like to write as myself because it takes too much thought trying to be a good writer. i’m lazy. and plus.. i really like it when i get those comments from my friends.. like, “it’s cool when i read your entries, it sounds like you right there talking to me.” cause they can hear my voice you know? yeah.. i like that.

ScorpionByBirth said,

July 12, 2005 @ 7:42 am

Well hello there, Kim.  Welcome back!!!  It’s been a long time girl.  I miss your humorous as well as educational posts.  Please don’t leave us hanging for long again.  ;-)
Ditto to lauren_ganda, my writing ability is limited to just expressing what and how I feel about certain things.  And since its my journal I basically talk about what’s happening in my little world.  Private stuff you won’t ever read in my public posts.  I reserve the right to limit what and how much I want people that come by my site to know about me.  If I’m hiding behind my words, so be it.
Take care.  {v} Marissa

cantBfaded said,

July 12, 2005 @ 8:11 am

wow. i actually had a conversation about you just last night…me and my gf were like “hmm…i wonder where shi’s hiding?…”
glad you’re back.
anyway, about your post…i think that people write about random stuff (unrelated to their daily lives) because it’s gotten to the point where it’s become taboo to blog about personal happenings…people say stuff like “who cares about what you did today, or yesterday, or the day before that…”
people write for an audience now…
i like to mix it up a bit myself…a lil’ bit o’ reality mixed with a bit o’ sensationalism…

davidngo said,

July 12, 2005 @ 9:50 am

sometimes, the lives of the writer are just not that interesting, but their thoughts on a certain subject or issue may be VERY interesting.  revealing who you are and providing that voyeuristic hint isn’t a requirement.  I think you just would like to be more of a voyeur than they allow you to.

x__AsianAttack said,

July 12, 2005 @ 11:47 am

Very nice point and very thought-provoking :] but my synapses are currently fried, and I therefore can’t come up with a theory . . . x__Stephany

bjtdevera said,

July 12, 2005 @ 1:53 pm

it makes me wonder too.
…ok, fine, no, it didn’t make me wonder; but it was the polite thing to say.

skittlesa said,

July 12, 2005 @ 2:21 pm

hey my name is brittany

helpyouhere said,

July 12, 2005 @ 2:21 pm

hello.  I created my xanga to help those people who have problems(friendship, relationships, family, etc) in their life that they don’t know how to solve and don’t know who to talk to.  you can email me and ask for advice.  it’s totally confidential and you dont need to give me any type of private information.  feel free to email me!

my_pseudo_life said,

July 12, 2005 @ 3:13 pm

Trust me

my_pseudo_life said,

July 12, 2005 @ 3:33 pm

Trust me, good writers reveal alot about themselves in their writing. Even though you may always have to wonder if the things they write are purely fiction or if the things they write about have some truth behind it, you can always count on that they leave pieces of them in each story they write.
I believe that good writers are dreamers. They see things differently. A sheet of paper is not just a sheet of paper. It has the potential of being origami. Honestly you could say that good writers are liars. Story tellers are telling stories that they might have made up in their head. Those may qualify as lies because they did not happen in reality.
Although I’m not too sure if you are talking about the subject matter or if you’re talking about the technique of writers. Someone could have interesting ideas but if they cannot make it come across smoothly to captivate their audience then it wouldn’t matter the potential of the subject. Someone could turn a subject so mundane into the most wonderful story ever told. Some people just aren’t as articulate as others.
But then again I’m only referring to the writing of fiction and that’s different from writing about stuff you did today and simply keeping a journal.

my_pseudo_life said,

July 12, 2005 @ 3:35 pm

Thats my two cents and here’s two more. Take care. Everyone on xanga has their own interesting qualities. Especially the ones who post lots of pictures! Cheers!

LipsInLove said,

July 12, 2005 @ 6:12 pm

I’m linking this entry from my site. I loved it.
xoxo

Linz1985 said,

July 12, 2005 @ 6:44 pm

Or maybe you havent truly found good writers.

Ssweet_dreemzZ said,

July 12, 2005 @ 6:54 pm

Hmm…interesting.

dezy15 said,

July 12, 2005 @ 7:18 pm

Wow girl. If that is u in those pics, u are a very pretty asian keep it up, and keep takin care of urself maybe ill give u props again later. peace!!!

s1ms said,

July 12, 2005 @ 7:59 pm

as a past time i dont write like i do on xanga.
xanga, honestly, is for me to be nosey and it was a place where me and my forbidden girlfriend- ex-girfriend now- could talk.
but at school or for fun i like to keep things mysterious while still having a clear voice and tone.
nice observation.

steadystate said,

July 12, 2005 @ 8:44 pm

it’s because this is the internet, and you really never know who’s reading. i don’t put my name anywhere online if i can help it, and fuck putting my picture up. also, i’m just too lazy to talk about my day and my feelings. it’s easier to just be sarcastic and put up links instead.

JTranJustscrap said,

July 13, 2005 @ 8:41 am

I like this post…it’s very true and interesting =P random propz =P

runrox4 said,

July 13, 2005 @ 9:31 am

I actually agree but it also depends of the state of theirs lives that they are in…. for example, my website is just stupid mindles twitter about, well the stupidest things I couldl basically think of, I tells nothing (barely) of the people I know or the things that I really care about. MY xanga is nothing like me. If your xanga is how you really are, then i think ur k. it could be that Xanga is merely a personal journal, or some place where people can mask themselves in stupidity (as in my case) Lata

luvliladee said,

July 13, 2005 @ 9:41 am

random props i like ur site :)

mv43 said,

July 13, 2005 @ 11:06 am

Hmmm an interesting point you make. It could be looked at on several levels. If you are good at writing on a technical level versus someone who is not, your writing will not look like this: “lOl HAha I WaS totaly AT the MalL yesterday went WiTh friends hEy do yoU kn0W StarBuCks hAs…..” That makes my eyes hurt. However that may give a better window into the mind of that person than a plain letter description. You might say that person is rather scatter-brained and spontaneous. Perhaps to be a good writer you must be able to express a variety of ideas, theories, and views in a manner that is both engaging and entertaining to your audience. Whether or not you choose to shade those with colors of yourself is up to you, writing can or cannot be a personal expression.

caramelshizzle said,

July 13, 2005 @ 11:45 am

that.. made sense.

LIIGHTS_CAMERA_ACTIION said,

July 13, 2005 @ 2:42 pm

nice site. random props.

bellesprit said,

July 13, 2005 @ 4:36 pm

As an avid fan of prose myself, I must say that the desire for concinnity and embellishment for the sake of artistic magnificence overrides any impulse to tell the truth as it is, because in a writer’s point of view, the truth often isn’t interesting enough.

X_Bloody_Flesh_Seeking_pain_X said,

July 13, 2005 @ 6:48 pm

That was a good entry.

magneticpearls said,

July 13, 2005 @ 10:31 pm

hmm interesting observations… I do it too, I have seperate accounts for writing and daily life… this is writing, and you’re not supposed to know anything about me. through writing is the only way you can and are supposed to see. :0

irenaeusanthony said,

July 13, 2005 @ 10:39 pm

sometimes writing is a necessity. there’s a time when after all is done, we have to use words. there is too, silence.

Amandas_Kick_Ass_Buddy said,

July 13, 2005 @ 11:18 pm

you don’t know me at all but your post really caught my eye.. personally i am a good writer.. i write peotry and lots of other stuff.. lately my life had went down hill really quickly, and my xanga is my escape.. me personally.. i do tell what i feel, but i kinda code it.. a writer sees things differently than others.. and as a writer i don’t think at all when i write i just type, and then i’ll go back to see what i have said.. sometimes i don’t even know that i felt that way until i read what i’ve wrote.. but i guess it all depends on the person.. some people can open up really easily to anyone.. while others bite their tongue alot and don’t share alot with you.. comment me back if you want, but i am warning you its pretty darn depressing right now.. but it might help with your theory..

m1ss_jad33 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 1:16 am

good point, i have noticed that too…..

maybe everyone has alot to say its just that good writers find it easier to write about and explain

im not sure
me…well im definitly not a good writer lol

Mahady said,

July 14, 2005 @ 6:14 am

nicesite..

i redid my xanga will you please tell me if it looks good?

Jimaythashrk said,

July 14, 2005 @ 6:18 am

okay i guess will start off saying that i am a writer. and writing which i think you got is all wrong is a place where you can reveal yourself and put your true personality into what you are doing. some people are just not inspired yet or don’t really have to have a comment for their xanga. not meaning there hiding but just bored and enjoy the fact that they write. or some people are just not ready yet. i know you said you viewed past bloogrings to check up on these people. but maybe the reason there in the same spot of “not revealing anything” is because like i said they arn’t ready. and besides reading that comment of yours never really revealed anything of you to me? so whos a writer now?

FashionPyrate said,

July 14, 2005 @ 6:35 am

Who says good writers don’t write as themselves?  Check me out sometime. ;-)

PunkUniversity said,

July 14, 2005 @ 7:54 am

Da IZ-Masta

theDailyReport said,

July 14, 2005 @ 8:47 am

I understand how people do that, I am the same way. I think I am a very good writer, so I dont think I have to talk about my life that much — I’d rather entertain.

Psycho_Delicate said,

July 14, 2005 @ 9:31 am

Actually, that’s the complete opposite of what I’ve seen.  People who are good at writing write about what they really believe in and about issues that move them.
People who don’t know how to write only write about the petty details of their lives…the meaningless physical things…how much they drank, what party they’re going to, what clothes they bought, who they hang out with, etc.
It seems the Writers care more about reaching out to their readers and forming opinions rather than recaping their days with verbal masturbation about how interesting they are.
Writers would rather be known for what they write than for their simple course of daily events.

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July 14, 2005 @ 9:53 am

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LiLmiZnOnPerfeCt said,

July 14, 2005 @ 10:17 am

propslol ur entry is like a speech ahhaha jux sounds like ithollA bak

runpunk said,

July 14, 2005 @ 12:03 pm

I’m so happy ’cause today i found my friendsThey’re in my headI’m so ugly That’s okay ’cause so are youWe’ve broken our mirrorsSunday morning is everyday for all i careAnd i’m not scaredLight my candles in a daze ‘Cause i found GodYeah, yeah, yeah (x6)Yeah!I’m so lonely, that’s okay, i  shaved my headAnd i’m not sadAnd just maybe i’m to blame for all i’ve heard But i’m not sureI’m so excited, i can’t wait to meet you thereAnd i don’t careI’m so horny, that’s okay my will is goodYeah, yeah, yeah (x6)Yeah!I like it… i’m not gonna crackI miss you… i’m not gonna crackI love you… i’m not gonna crackI kill you… i’m not gonna crackI like it… i’m not gonna crackI miss you… i’m not gonna crackI love you… i’m not gonna crackI kill you… i’m not gonna crackI’m so happy ’cause today i found my friendsThey’re in my headI’m so ugly, but that’s okay ’cause so are youWe’ve broken our mirrorsSunday morning is everyday for all i careAnd i’m not scaredLight my candles in a daze ’cause i found god!Yeah, yeah, yeah (x6)Yeah!I like it… i’m not gonna crackI miss you… i’m not gonna crackI love you… i’m not gonna crackI kill you… i’m not gonna crackI like i… i’m not gonna crackI miss you… i’m not gonna crackI love you… i’m not gonna crackI kill you… i’m not gonna crack

NoKittyMyPotPie said,

July 14, 2005 @ 12:41 pm

hi  :)

kao_kue said,

July 14, 2005 @ 12:45 pm

I think you’re a good writer.  You don’t see many of those anymore.  Only stupid people at abbreviate everything.  It gets under my skin sometimes.  Why do people go through twelve years of school if they’re not going to use what they’ve learned?

Xo_KiKoEnAi_Xo said,

July 14, 2005 @ 12:46 pm

random props tyt syt mang!Layd3e_K

SugarBlue2 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 1:04 pm

I only write about the very most important events in my life.  My life is just not that interesting in the details, but what I write most about is my spiritual journey which is the most important aspect of my physical life.  Physical life in this world is only a small part of my eternal spiritual life.  I write about my doubts, misgivings, blessings, and encouragements.  I write about inspirational thoughts and comment on the works of writers far better at the craft that I and share my reflections on their work.  I also write things that I hope to be encouraging and inpsirational to anyone who might choose to read them.  I document my daily life as far as the important moments and how my spirituality is affected by it.  I try to write encouragements in my comments because I have been in a lot of places that others are only now going through and I feel like I can help them – if only just a little bit  – by sharing my own trials and what I found to be of comfort to me at those times.  I hope my writing is more of a sharing of the theme of my life than a detailed accounting of every mundane event that occurs during the day.
For what it’s worth.
L,r

hustleman88 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 2:00 pm

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MyKi_Whatzerface said,

July 14, 2005 @ 4:15 pm

Of course you’re making  a gross generalization… applying absolutes to writing styles and writers does both an injustice… and even if your musings are accurate in regards to the writings/writers you’ve read– there is such a thing as exceptions to the rule.

SweetHoney64 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 5:13 pm

Hey could you plz come to my web and answer weather or not I should be a stripper! thanx!

babieyxflirt said,

July 14, 2005 @ 5:44 pm

I never really contemplated on those things.. I’ve just been looking back at all my previous posts from when I had first began xanga – I only saw things that evolved within myself.. I never really noticed my friends or acquantainces change – whether or not they’re a good as a writer as you are. you bring out a good point though..

Alechii said,

July 14, 2005 @ 6:00 pm

hullo. random propzeeys.
nice.
check mine out some time.

Alechii said,

July 14, 2005 @ 6:01 pm

i like your sincerity in the entry of july 11th.

amazedleaves said,

July 14, 2005 @ 6:20 pm

pretty much….

dorkchck13 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 7:37 pm

wow i like… nice n deep. anyway, good ideas. i’m going to have to think about that some. later.

mrwonton06 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 8:33 pm

Popeye’s Chicken and Biscuits, a U.S. fast food restaurant chain, is not named after Popeye the sailor, but rather after the character “Popeye” Doyle from the 1971 film The French Connection – who was in turn named after real police detective Eddie Egan who was called “pop eye” because of his keen observational skills. The chain would later license the cartoon characters for use as a promotional tool, causing some confusion as to the source of the name. Recently, Popeye’s Chicken and Biscuits has omitted the use of “Popeye the Sailor” in promotions; one reason given was the difficulty of effectively marketing their food with a sailor character.

vcard101 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 8:38 pm

Maybe good writers are scared to tell something deep and emotional because it’s not expected. Like there are people are Xanga who seem to do posts about their day, and funny things that have happened. Then you have those who do like poetry and their deep thoughts and themselves. Then ya got the emos. (I am totally not saying that emos are bad writers) And maybe the “good writers” don’t want to change their way of writing because they’re afraid people won’t like it….or that they’ll sound all “dramatic”.

Lindersay said,

July 14, 2005 @ 9:00 pm

that was effing deep man

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July 14, 2005 @ 9:02 pm

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July 14, 2005 @ 9:24 pm

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July 14, 2005 @ 10:24 pm

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bopagoose2 said,

July 14, 2005 @ 11:03 pm

Wow, you’re right.  That really made me think.

scr1be said,

July 15, 2005 @ 10:00 am

i hate writing.  i only do it when i’m bored.

onelifetwodeaths said,

July 15, 2005 @ 10:08 am

you’re giving me a headache but you got nice lips

PandaFairy said,

July 15, 2005 @ 10:42 am

::  nods in agreement ::Haha, unfortunately, I’m one of those “good writers”.That was a nice entry. I like how you think.Take care. bye-bye~!

helpyouhere said,

July 15, 2005 @ 12:50 pm

Hi! I started this xanga and I’m just going through xangas to let people know about the things I’m doing and why I’m doing it. I’m making a xanga to let people know about the one thing I decided to do and it’s to give people advices on the a lot of the teenager problems that they run into such as relationships, friendships, family or anything. Big or small problems. I can always be there and help you. It’s no cost and it’s totally confidential. So, please email me or comment me if you do happen to run into a bad situation.

communismisforlosers said,

July 15, 2005 @ 3:04 pm

You must be quite popular to have so many comments posted, but I still think atht none of these people know what they are talking about.  I am going to be a little mean spirited, but who cares?  A good writer does not just tell a story, but makes a point; there is an argument–often you’re not looking for the author, but for the argument.  And the argument is part of that person–you read the book, you know what the guy thought.  You may not know about the person, but you can see part of who they are.
Now all these people who use xanga as an online journal are not arguing, but telling about themselves.  They are obsessed with themselves, not an ideal or an argument, and so they express it to everyone else; that’s what this is to them.  People who like to write have a higher purpose than themselves, and so you may not see that.  Also, I do know a few people on xanga (one who actually has a book published) who do talk about themselves until you’re sick.  If you don’t believe me, you can leave a comment and I’ll give you her username.

krn_christian said,

July 15, 2005 @ 3:56 pm

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intensitymytz said,

July 15, 2005 @ 4:52 pm

Good point! Wether the person is a good writer or not, I believe it depends on their emotions and situations while writing an entry.

intensitymytz said,

July 15, 2005 @ 5:00 pm

There are a lot of factors that affect a person’s way in writing. It’s not just how they compose it, nor just the content, but their emotions while writing it.
Did I make sense?

polly_cracker said,

July 15, 2005 @ 5:56 pm

hey mite be weird that idotn know u and all..ahaha..but caught u on the recent list and clicked on ur payge..and i really liked what u said abt the people reading and writing think..i think thats true…but journalism is a great thing…i really like it…i think it can be expressed in any form even if its not professionally..well jsut wanna say nice xanga payge and keep up the nice thoughts

hislovechild said,

July 15, 2005 @ 7:05 pm

wouldn’t that be journalists versus writers? I mean, some many different types of writers. did someone say you were a bad writer or is this pretentious on purpose?I mean xanga swings both ways man. the writers bit: Yea, some people don’t like voyeurs, and obviously xanga is based off a happy voyeurism is cool, lets see who peeps(props) on me more fantasy world.

kao_kue said,

July 15, 2005 @ 7:11 pm

I disagree with you.  I think your theory is off.  You’re on the right track, but going the wrong direction.

mzJustice said,

July 16, 2005 @ 5:04 am

Interesting point — I was just browsing through the featured content. I think, people who can, hide behind their prose because it’s easier showing the world what you can do, than who you are.

PanthersHockey19 said,

July 16, 2005 @ 10:30 am

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July 16, 2005 @ 12:05 pm

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summerxglitter said,

July 16, 2005 @ 12:16 pm

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hottigurl052892 said,

July 16, 2005 @ 4:08 pm

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Still_SilentDream said,

July 16, 2005 @ 4:30 pm

That’s an interesting thought. I don’t make a distinction between good writing and um… not good writing.  Speaking for myself it seems like just the opposite.  I put tons of myself into what I write. Especially my early ones.  Recently I’ve been having more fun with it and the feelings expressed within aren’t necessarily personal, but I call that using my creative license, lol.  Anyway, maybe knowing someone’s background colors our views of what they write.  Some choose to not completely unveil themselves, but the reason doesn’t have to be a negative one.  And like a previous comment stated, some write for various reasons. 

DaemonSaDiablo said,

July 16, 2005 @ 7:01 pm

Very interesting point! Well said. I have wondered that myself. But you know, as long as those good writers are being satisfied and they are producing good works even if they may be lies, I am happy with it. What do you think?

So_Flippin_Sweet_88 said,

July 16, 2005 @ 9:15 pm

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sexysoccerdude11 said,

July 17, 2005 @ 6:22 am

Because everyone is afraid of the evil College English Professors, that come around and grade all the xangas.

trizad said,

July 17, 2005 @ 1:33 pm

shoot i got to reading yoru comments and forgot what i wanted to say about your post. *re-reads* i hadn’t been here in a lil min… but i remember you said you wanted to get back to really writing again. i’m glad you did. even though it didn’t last long. lol.
as for you post i wonder how true it is. i started two xangas for just that purpose. kinda. ones anonoymous (spelling) and the other one everybody pretty much knoes me personaly or goes to school with me. i guess in the private one i write like me and in my public one i try to act like i’m a god writer. ..lol i suck though.
-alan
 

prettygirlsdie_x said,

July 17, 2005 @ 3:40 pm

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tuotierugif said,

July 17, 2005 @ 6:50 pm

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SunIsWarm said,

July 17, 2005 @ 8:32 pm

Cool site, fun to read. Nice work.

x__your_star said,

July 17, 2005 @ 9:45 pm

your name, shi, caught my eye. i was just wondering if your name was shiloh?

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