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Bisexuality:
Is it a greed thing?
Dear Friend,
I’ve written about bisexuality before, in a humourous manner, but I don’t think I ever really the topic, so I thought today might be a good day.
A blast from the past
Last night I went to a workshop called “What Women Want” where a bunch of 19-25 year old people sat around in a circle and talked about issues on sex and the opposite sex.
One of the questions raised was, “Would you ever date a bisexual?”
The general consensus around the room was that bisexuals were greedy.
Now, I’ve never actually come out and said it [although it says so in any profile that asks], but I have dated girls in the past. I guess that makes me a bisexual.
However, I don’t think that makes me greedy — I just happened to like a girl enough to date her.
Misconceptions about the meaning of “bisexual”:
I think that a lot of people have misconceptions about the word “Bisexual”. The term in itself somewhat signifies promiscuity because of the word “bi” itself. I also think a lot of “pansexuals” (those who are open to anything) tend to call themselve “bisexaul” because it’s a more accepted term.
Some bisexuals think it’s OK to have a relationship with a guy and a girl at the same time, because if it’s not with the same sex it’s not cheating.
Take it from me, it’s cheating.
And I DEFINITELY will not share my boyfriend with another girl.
In my case, bisexual just means that I happen to date girls sometimes, and I happen to date guys sometimes.. and though my last two long relationships have been with guys, if I were to become single again it wouldn’t be out of the question to date a girl.
Bisexuality FAQ #2
Does bisexuality exist?
A lot of people tell me that bisexuality doesn’t exist in the first place. That it’s a myth for people who are gay or promiscuous.
While I’d like to think I’m not promiscuous (I’ve been in 2 long term [2.5 years and 1 year] relationships in the past 4 years), I know I’m definitely not gay.
I’m just open to the idea.
Bisexuality FAQ #3
Questions:
People have a lot of ideas about bisexuality, do you think it’s a greed thing?
Does bisexuality exist?
