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Wednesday March 22, 2006 at 10:17 am

Sexual Frustration:
Yay or nay?

Would you rather be a little frustrated or too satisfied?

I say yay to the sexual frustration. I actually think it’s kind of nice to have sexual tension. I heard an explaination once for ‘cha-no-yu’ (japanese tea ceremony) that fits into this situation perfectly:

Though the ultimate goal of the ceremony is to drink the tea that is made at the end… the beauty and pleasure of the ceremony is not necessarily the end, but all the pleasureable steps to that end.

But maybe it’s because I’m a girl, and sexual tension is like foreplay for me. :)

lokei81 said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:20 am

Nice quote…
I find the higher level of frustration…the better the ending is usually. :-D

crystalt728 said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:25 am

I’m definitely feeling the frustration!!!

YellowChildPride said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:33 am

i feel you..

x__MakeMeBeautiful said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:38 am

Sometimes I wonder if that makes you weird…
Because I usually enjoy what leads up to it more than the actual act.

Rhetoric1an said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:46 am

The higher the level of frustration, the quicker the ending.  :)

franksabunch said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:49 am

For men, they are always sexually frustrated!

CaKaLusa said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:56 am

CURSE THOSE VAGINAS!

airina05 said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:08 am

i need an outlet for my sexual frustration

Sandsid said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:13 am

also there’s the “half the fun in vacation is planning for it.”

ThatGuy_Matt said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:14 am

maybe for a little while. then it makes the games a little more enjoyable.eh?

ThatGuy_Matt said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:15 am

The higher the level of frustration, the quicker the ending.  :)
Posted 3/22/2006 at 1:46 PM by Rhetoric1an
 
hahahahha

mrchinese said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:31 am

hey kim, organize a giant greek orgy. problem solved.

bettertomorrow said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:39 am

obviously… you jus dun understand how we operate. LOL.

kyleeuin said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:44 am

Fransk a bunch said it

eklipse126 said,

March 22, 2006 @ 12:19 pm

Time for you to write an entry on sexual repression.

jimmiwin said,

March 22, 2006 @ 12:19 pm

Frustration and tension are two different things. Frustration sucks, sexually or any other kind. It’s because there is confusion in the mix. But tension rocks. The power struggle; the push and pull; ebb and flow of dominance. mmmmm. Imma cause some tension tonight.

davidngo said,

March 22, 2006 @ 12:21 pm

hahha.  an appropriate profile pic to accompany this entry.  (this just in:  guy commenting up on shi’s site by 300%)

SL600 said,

March 22, 2006 @ 12:38 pm

i don’t think you’re quite at the frustration point yet, then :-D

Fiona_Vanderwall said,

March 22, 2006 @ 12:59 pm

Very fitting quote, and I couldn’t agree more.  I’d never tell me ex this, but sometimes I LIKED having a higher sex-drive than he because when I did get some, that made it much more intense.  For example we broke up and had only seen each other once in the two weeks since and we got together one night and it was PHENOMENAL!!  Prolly because ‘absense makes the heart grow fonder’ but also because there was so much sexual tension….

xtenstarsonsticksx said,

March 22, 2006 @ 1:40 pm

A little frustated. For example, women love quickies. haha.

bjtdevera said,

March 22, 2006 @ 1:49 pm

just come find me at a street corner near you.

LuPac said,

March 22, 2006 @ 2:04 pm

dude, extra frustration with a hint of satisfaction.  but uh.. blue balls suck and usually the guys can’t resist the urge and we just end up wacking it, which in turn, screws up all that “pent up” energy.  but uh, if the guy actually holds out until yall get to the point, let the bells ring and be heard across the land!

Yosho said,

March 22, 2006 @ 2:08 pm

sexual frustration is okay as long as it leads somewhere…i hate girls who cocktease all day but in the end, never put out!

Scorpi said,

March 22, 2006 @ 2:19 pm

naturally, otherwise, why not just bone someone, have their kid, then go kill yourself.that’s not how life is, drinking the tea… but in the ceremony leading up to the drink.”the sides of the mountains define where the mountain top is.”there is no life at the top of the mountain, but along the sides…(paraphrased, zen & the art of motorcycle maintenance)

CHT11 said,

March 22, 2006 @ 3:19 pm

I’m all about getting down… so “too satisfied.” Frustration sounds kinky, until we’re stuck with it.

meemee925 said,

March 22, 2006 @ 3:55 pm

oooooh, definitely frustration! i like to be teased. it makes the sex so much more wild and pleasurable. :-)

gechalx said,

March 22, 2006 @ 3:58 pm

ahaha lol i love your profile pic!! but yea i’d ratherbe too satisfied than frustrated.. but it depends.. like a year being sexually frustrated = crazy hornyness!! sex like 4 times a day kinda cheapens it. lol

Jennie_Nguyen said,

March 22, 2006 @ 4:16 pm

maybe due to a lack of hormones i dont get sexually frustrated. that’s probably not a good thing.

prodigyvioana said,

March 22, 2006 @ 4:29 pm

this is more of a girl oriented question. a guy can’t do “too satisfied” unless he goes all sub-5/quickies….not that i would know. jus heard :)

nofa1r said,

March 22, 2006 @ 4:41 pm

ah god. nay!

shirtpuppet said,

March 22, 2006 @ 5:39 pm

i’ll tell you when i’m no longer frustrated….damn…many years and counting….

R0MANTIK said,

March 22, 2006 @ 6:11 pm

i think i rather be a little too satisfied. it appeals to me. its like this situation. you can’t really get sick of love but sometimes there’s a little too much love. but i’d rather be over loved than under loved.

Hope_Endures said,

March 22, 2006 @ 6:39 pm

There’s no such thing as Too Satisfied.  =)~  Dani [another woman. ]

keimay said,

March 22, 2006 @ 7:57 pm

only a woman would prefer the frustration to the satisfaction. I agree that tension adds spice to life, b/c you dont want to get everything you want. but when it comes to sex and men, you just want it. Thats a tension that’s not helping anyone do anything, which is why i dont understand why so many men go to strip clubs only to be disappointed at the end of the evening.fun entry

OkayChaSiuBao said,

March 22, 2006 @ 10:59 pm

i like your new profile pic hahaha =P goes w/ your post quite nicely

Onigiriman said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:43 pm

Frustration! hehehehehe. And a Belated Happy Birthday!

keneke said,

March 22, 2006 @ 11:49 pm

NAY! but when they finally comes around it’s definitely a YAY!

sochiet said,

March 23, 2006 @ 1:59 am

wow, that’s hotttt…………..

zeroleader said,

March 23, 2006 @ 6:03 am

with a little frustration…it is like foreplay! makes it all that much more intense

HotterBoy said,

March 23, 2006 @ 6:05 am

A little frustration increases pleasure once you do have sex…I have the remedy for you Kim. It’s slightly curved and rather large. Ask and ye shall receive. You know how much i’ve always wanted you. ;)~

LuPac said,

March 23, 2006 @ 6:06 am

definitely a chick with 2 penises on her knees. then when we’re making out, i wouldn’t feel something poking my head.  plus, i don’t have to see it and when im out w/ her, just tell her to wear pants hahah.  would you rather have the best sex of your life w/ the ugliest guy ever who you are dating OR have no sex but are with the reasonably good looking guy, not super hot, but definitely turns heads?

LuPac said,

March 23, 2006 @ 6:15 am

btw, dude, respond to my question.  check your inbox in myspace.  i’m confused.

acid_star_dust said,

March 23, 2006 @ 6:50 am

4 play fun……
xoxo
-Shanna

tonkalfe said,

March 23, 2006 @ 7:33 am

Two words. Swollen labia.

JCFans said,

March 23, 2006 @ 7:40 am

Yay!
I’m all frustrated here!!!!!! Haha.

Whos_ur_daddy061 said,

March 23, 2006 @ 8:17 am

HEY I FEEL UR PAIN

Jarris said,

March 23, 2006 @ 8:43 am

the sexual tension is probably the best…cuz then it makes the best when the tension is released…too much and then your left with doing something you keep doing again and again and you lose to repetition……

edivamr said,

March 23, 2006 @ 9:03 am

okie dokie smokie

armpit3579 said,

March 23, 2006 @ 9:41 am

I love sex

frshsqzedoj said,

March 23, 2006 @ 9:56 am

You have no idea how much tension i have!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dressed_N_black said,

March 23, 2006 @ 10:55 am

I agree. Fustration is better.

greyface said,

March 23, 2006 @ 11:49 am

i’m with you there.

The_ACLU said,

March 23, 2006 @ 11:55 am

ANYBODY WHO WOULD HAVE SEX WITH A DOG LIKE YOU WOULD HAVE TO BE FRUSTRATED.  

Mrs_Hoyle said,

March 23, 2006 @ 2:39 pm

totally agree with you.  sometimes you get all excited about it then you realize dang it wasn’t THAT good.  but then again, the ride is better than the destination & as long as you’re lying w/ your significant other at the destination, well that’s paradise for me no matter what!

Cyndilu said,

March 23, 2006 @ 2:40 pm

nice analogy.  i agree…guys are all about Wham, Bam, Thank you Ma’am.

ThePumpkinKingJay said,

March 23, 2006 @ 4:36 pm

Tension is good. Makes it even better when you actually have it again. Building up a little steam is nice sometimes.

Sahteef_Storm said,

March 23, 2006 @ 5:11 pm

Sex is one of the best things in the world!!! But it isn’t everything. A little frustration doesn’t hurt. Sometimes it makes the final out come better.

swedish_chef_is_hot42 said,

March 23, 2006 @ 8:14 pm

you don’t look like you’re suffering from THAT much frustration of the sexual variety from your profile pic…i find it works…

dhdh49 said,

April 8, 2006 @ 3:05 am

does the frustration just mean you’re not having enough? if yes, come look for me since i’m done with school with no jobs yet.oh, i still haven’t tried your curry yet.

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