inicio mail me! sindicaci;ón

Thursday March 16, 2006 at 10:55 am

I turn 23 today!
Let’s get wasted!! :-D

So I turn 23 today. 23 is not exactly an exciting age. Even last year when I turned 22 I was at least able to reflect on being 21… but 23 is the birthday that is just the next step to middle aged boringness.

Or so I thought… and should have hoped.

To be honest, this birthday has been the most emotional birthday I’ve ever experienced. Several separate things have all kind of cumulated together to turn me into a ridiculous emotional ball of pain.

If these things were spread further apart, I probably would have been able to handle them, but all together, I’m reeling.

Emotional point number 1:
This is the first time in five years that I’ve been single on my birthday.

Emotional point number 2:
I received a birthday present from my ex boyfriend [before Lan, the 2.5 year relationship one] that can be considered nothing more than ambiguous in its meaning.

Emotional point number 3:
Today I talked to my father for the first time in 13 years. He got my phone number from one of my brothers and called me to say happy birthday. … He sounds so old.

Who said 23 was going to be a boring birthday? >_

nofa1r said,

March 16, 2006 @ 10:57 am

happy birthday!
hey, its pre-st. patty’s day celebration. i’ll have a guinness in your honor tonight. or a green beer if they are serving

lokei81 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 10:59 am


bobaShop said,

March 16, 2006 @ 10:59 am

i turned 23 in february and it was.. okay. now i’m 23 and the world is happening and having crisis where i’m like “wtf.. i’m growing up. i’m getting older. shit.” it’s scary. 23 is almost 25 and 25 is almost 30. *scared*

cutsiepie55 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:00 am

Happy day of your birth =)

ch50 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:07 am


Avalest said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:07 am

I turned 23 in 2008! Shit… that’s not so far away anymore.

Yosho said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:08 am

go get crunk!

ch50 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:09 am

so whats the deal w/ the seperation between you and your dad??

c0rkie said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:09 am

it’s up to you to make it what it will be :)

jimmiwin said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:13 am

Happy Birthday. Can I draw you naked?

xtsr said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:13 am

happy birthday :D. you know what i hate? is how being in your early 20’s make you feel young & old at the same time. bleh.stine.

tHexDonStER said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:14 am

damn 13 years you havn’t talk to your dad?

bettertomorrow said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:17 am

have fun getting wasted. 23. what a ripe age. LOL.

mrponi said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:20 am

happy 23… it has only been 276 months since ur first day.. ;)  enjoy this wicked life…

eklipse126 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:23 am

Happy Birthday!

Brett_T said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:33 am

Happy Birthday Kim!

JulieVu said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:38 am

yea been 23….waiting for 24

stubbytalk said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:39 am

happy birthday! 23 isn’t that bad…at least we still look 21 =) thank goodness for that asian blood. party it up babe!

MrDurden said,

March 16, 2006 @ 11:43 am

happy birthday

dearmisery said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:05 pm

Happy birthday =) don’t wory about it its all good.. its time to ‘party like its ya birthday!’

x3shelovesyou said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:05 pm

happy birthday,i hope your day gets better = )

franksabunch said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:09 pm

I think the phone call from your father is the best present of all.  Happy birthday!

sayJames said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:15 pm

one should get wasted at every birthday!

WeirdAnnoyingPerson said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:17 pm

Happy birthday :D

merelyanother said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:19 pm

hey happy birthday Kim! I thought I recognized your picture. doood.

juryduty said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:23 pm

Ahhh your an Odd number now! Ha Ha… Happy Birthday buddy.


syfft said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:25 pm

Happy Birthday! Live it up… sooner than you know it, you’ll be the big 3-0.
13 years since you’ve spoken to your dad? Hopefully he just wants to get know you better. Usually when someone comes back into your life after so long, they are either sick or in need of some cash.

kphehe said,

March 16, 2006 @ 12:28 pm

Youngins I tell ya

AristotleForDummies said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:06 pm

was talking to your father a welcome or unwelcome conversation?

YellowChildPride said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:21 pm

just wait till you turn 24! =P Happy Birthday, Girl!! let’s get drunk!! hehe

hYpErKrAzYaZnGrL said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:21 pm

Happy Happy Happy Birthday!!!  *takes a virtual birthday shot with kim*   \_o/

hYpErKrAzYaZnGrL said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:27 pm

 this is more like it:
Happy Birthday!  =P

Trinity86 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:30 pm

happy birthday. things can only get better =)

kyleeuin said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:39 pm

Happy Birthday

kalamai said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:42 pm

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! drink a shot for me :D i’m glad you talked to your dad! well at least i think i’m glad…lol are YOU glad? =\ ok i’ll shuddup now. *runs away*

Rhetoric1an said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:45 pm

Happy Birthday!

psychocotic said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:45 pm

Happy Birthday. Yay for personal growth. =)

guessbearalice said,

March 16, 2006 @ 1:49 pm

Tanjoubi Omedetou! Happy Birthday in Japanese…thought you would like it. :-)Have a great time wasting away!

CaKaLusa said,

March 16, 2006 @ 2:07 pm

merry christmas. :D

tinkerbonk said,

March 16, 2006 @ 2:08 pm

yay for asian emoticons!! >__seriously…spend more time with your family…and happy birthday (=

i_Wan said,

March 16, 2006 @ 2:13 pm

Happy Birthday!

keneke said,

March 16, 2006 @ 2:20 pm

wow, happy birthday. i wish my birthdays had all these crazy things in them. i’m boring. well, i kind of wish… o_O?

kanya_bopha said,

March 16, 2006 @ 2:30 pm

Happy birthday! You can remember this year as the year for new beginnings with your estranged(?) father.

meemee925 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 2:34 pm

happy birthday! holy shit, 13 years? that’s a really long time! i hope the phone call went well, though.

teamilksugah said,

March 16, 2006 @ 3:57 pm

happy birthday =]. must’ve been quite a day.

suicide_letter said,

March 16, 2006 @ 4:13 pm

happy 23rd birthday, kim.

shrek_azn said,

March 16, 2006 @ 4:25 pm

Happy B-day

gooksantiger said,

March 16, 2006 @ 4:48 pm

happy birthday

eklipse126 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 4:48 pm

i already went home…had to run some errands for my parents. i hope you’re partying it up tonight!

lindenrose said,

March 16, 2006 @ 5:29 pm

yay! you’re so young.

dehzep said,

March 16, 2006 @ 5:38 pm

happy birthday.  just think.  in one more year you will be 24!

kimlxf said,

March 16, 2006 @ 5:51 pm

Happy 23rd birthday!

lovepirate said,

March 16, 2006 @ 5:52 pm

Happy Birthday!
Sorry to hear that you lost your phone… I guess this means you can’t call me anymore…
Oh. Wait. You never did.
I guess things are OK, then ;-)

VortexInfinitum said,

March 16, 2006 @ 6:13 pm

a very happy 23rd to you

Kevin72 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 6:29 pm

I’m sad to hear when anyone is estranged from their parents. I hope that you can reconnect with him in a positive way. You’ve always been connected with him anyway in the Spiritual Universe.

johnchen3 said,

March 16, 2006 @ 6:40 pm

happy birthday, so ur a pieces

gechalx said,

March 16, 2006 @ 7:54 pm

can i come to your party!!? =)

Sandsid said,

March 16, 2006 @ 7:57 pm

happy birthday shi… may your new year be filled with wonderful memories…

jasonpho said,

March 16, 2006 @ 9:59 pm

Happy Birthday Kim, hope you enjoy it!

OkayChaSiuBao said,

March 16, 2006 @ 10:32 pm

ooo oo what did john get ya? Have you taken a look at Dave’s glowsticking dvd yet? the trailer is pretty cool!

sexyvietgirl_uk said,

March 16, 2006 @ 10:56 pm

Happy Birthday!

zealousalien said,

March 17, 2006 @ 1:23 am

haha. happy belated bday wish. –23 is kind of old though i have to say!

so_sxc said,

March 17, 2006 @ 1:43 am

happy birthday :) i hope this years turns out really well for you, because based on some of the things you’ve blogged about i got the feeling that at times it wasnt the best…
take care :)

petite_amazon said,

March 17, 2006 @ 1:45 am

Happy Birthday! It will be a great year! Smile!  :-)

vanessaO_o said,

March 17, 2006 @ 2:17 am

happy birthday!!

NancycnaN said,

March 17, 2006 @ 3:08 am

Happy Birthday…don’t worry about anything…EVERYTHING passes and anything destined will happen…Cheer up…who wouldn’t want a beautiful, animated, and one-of-a-kind gal like you!

Chiznarles said,

March 17, 2006 @ 4:38 am

hey your birthday too!? happy belated!

starfleeter said,

March 17, 2006 @ 5:21 am

Happy birthday, Kim! Hope things are going well with you.

ViOlEtNaRItA said,

March 17, 2006 @ 5:43 am

hey happy birthday girl…. wish you have a coolest birthday with all your wishes come true !!=)

sugarwoodgirl said,

March 17, 2006 @ 6:23 am

let’s celebrate girl, let the whole wolrd celebrate!

dj_hott_boy said,

March 17, 2006 @ 6:40 am

Happy Birthday ……………….Too bad I didn’t know before hand other wise you could have got to coldplay with me…………enjoy your day

lasrayasblancas63 said,

March 17, 2006 @ 7:49 am

do you like manga

makexmemories said,

March 17, 2006 @ 8:06 am

Happy Birthday!

pureeyes19 said,

March 17, 2006 @ 8:06 am

happy bday and i hope your mood gets happier alcohol should help that

iBruin said,

March 17, 2006 @ 9:27 am

Emotional point number 1: It’s just your abnormal day and probably won’t happen next year.Emotional point number 2: less than $1000.00
Emotional point number 3 is PRICELESS.

seksae said,

March 17, 2006 @ 10:26 am

wow…gettin that call from your dad must be a trip…in any case…happy birthday


March 17, 2006 @ 12:24 pm

happy b-day luv have a good one

gr00vy_chic said,

March 17, 2006 @ 12:24 pm

happy birthday!  someone at my workplace has your birthday too…but he’s much older than you….40 something,  enjoy your birthday weekend!

indielogical said,

March 17, 2006 @ 12:48 pm

Body: Body: Body: Body: ok i now u guys hate this crap when people put stupied bulletin but trust me i mean trust me i will never lie too any of u gals this shit is freakin scary its sooo crazy and it works but u have too belive in it.. soo good luck latesDO THIS ITS SOO FREAKYLove me mndy , nvmbr 28, 2005here just do itBody: most people aren’t sure of what they realy want in life. Ireceived thisletter from a friend on the computer, did what it told me to, andwithin aweek, everything I had wished came true!! Here’s an exact copy,thisreallyworks!!!!*************************************************************1. To yourself, say the name of the onlyguy or girl you wanna be with 3times!*************************************************************2. Think of something you wanna accomplishwithin the next week and say it to your self6times!!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~3. If you had 1 wish what would it be? say it toyourself 9 times!!!——————————————————————–4. Think of something that you want to happenbetween you and that 1special person and sayit to your self 12times!!!——————————————————————–5. Now, heres the hard part! Pick only 1 of these wishes and asyou scroll down focus andconcentrate on it and think on nothingelse but that wish.* ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** **** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** *Now make one last &final wish about that one wishthat you picked.After reading this, you have 1 hour to send it out to 15 people,and whatyou wished for will come true within in one week!u only get one chance!!!!! Now scroll down and think of yourcrush!!!Keep goingdownKeep goingKeepgoing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Did you think of your crush? I hope so, that wasyour last chance. Now pay very close attention this importantmessage!Sorry but once read, must be sent. Yes, this is one of those kindachainletters that everyone hates. This one has been going since 1863andif youbreak this chain, you will pay!!!!!! Remember that after hearingthesestories.First Example:Take Barbra Wallace.. She was a pretty lucky girl,up till she got this same chain letter. She had a crush on the samekidsince kindergarden. when she got this mail she didn’t pay anyattention toit. She just thought, no big deal. And deleted it. The next day herdadgot fired and her mom dies in a car crash. If she would have senttheletter none of that would have happened and her momwould be alive.Second Example:Try Freddie D. Now Freddie D. was your averagenerd. Had glasses, was short and chubby, was in gifted. All thesigns ofyour total dork. He also received this letter and sent it to 51people inthe hour. Now, like Barbra, he had a crush on a girl since 3rdgrade. Thenext day after sending the chain the girl confessed her love forhim eversince 3rd grade. Freddie D. finally had the courage to ask her out,and ofcourse, she had been waiting to yes to that for years. They grewupandmarried each other to live happily forever.Third Example:Now if you couldn’t relate to the others, this’llget ya hooked. Listen to this. A kid named Jordan Johnson was justgetting on AOL to check his mail. He was a quiet kid, not thatpopular butnot a geek either. he was just normal. He saw he had mail from hisfriend. It was this exact letter. Now Jordan Johnsen was a smartkid andhe knew what could happen if he didnt pass it on. He simply pulleda fewfriends from his buddy list and sent it along. The next day,aboutthatsame time, he got a phone call. It said he had won the lottery!then hisdad came home and bought him a new bike! His mom bought himNintendo64 andplay station! His grandmother sent him a new computer, and his bestfriendgave him tickets to the concert he wanted to go to, Kid Rock andLimpBizkit! Then he inherited a brand-new tv from his aunt! He wasgoin’ wild!the next day his secret crush asked him out, and they have beengoing outever since.Now, you heard the stories. I knowwhich person i’d ratherbe, but thats up to you. I wouldn’t wanna end up like Barbra butthatsonly me. We all want what we cant have but now’s ur chance to goout withthat special somebody ur waiting for. Take it or leave it. If yousendthis to-1 person- you will lose all luck in ur lovelife…..forever!!!!!10 people- your crush will say they like you as afriend……ONLY!!!!!15 people- your crush will say they like you20 people- your crush will ask you out!25 people- your crush will kiss you!!30 people – Your crushwill have sex with you35 people or more- All of the above!!Don’t blow it, it’s ur chance to shine! Haveeverything u wanted, and more! Now, complaining cus u dont have anyfriends. Well theres an answer 4 everything. It’s simple, just goin achat room, pick some names and send away! but here’s thecatch… onlyhave one hour to send it after being read. Please pass this toeveryone you.. kno

JonasApproved said,

March 17, 2006 @ 1:29 pm

happy belated bday! i turend 23 in december and i gotta agree..nothing too special w/ this year. next big year is 25 where we get cheaper car rentals

xploding_soda said,

March 17, 2006 @ 1:31 pm

happy birthday!

comenowtisI said,

March 17, 2006 @ 1:53 pm

What a blessing to be able to speak with your father after so long.  Congratulations!

weblogging_blows said,

March 17, 2006 @ 3:17 pm

Happy 23 years of being a dumbass.

thathrilainmanila said,

March 17, 2006 @ 3:21 pm

major major “awwww” to emotional point number 3. :)

loldavelol said,

March 17, 2006 @ 3:49 pm

Happy (late) Birthday Kim!  even though it’s an emotional time, i hope you’re having a great birthday week/end!!

hammersxandxhearts__xx said,

March 17, 2006 @ 5:09 pm

Random props, you’re gorgeous.-Katie.

FatalAce said,

March 17, 2006 @ 5:58 pm

happy birthday

Vfor_Vendetta said,

March 17, 2006 @ 6:02 pm

People should not be afraid of their governments, governments should be afraid of their people.

infinitiNY said,

March 17, 2006 @ 7:31 pm

uhm… happy bday! congrats on making it this far??? o_O?

surfermickey602 said,

March 17, 2006 @ 7:45 pm

Happy Bday! :)

TaiChi_Masta said,

March 17, 2006 @ 8:59 pm

Tanjoobi omedetou =P

bjtdevera said,

March 18, 2006 @ 12:09 am

what an insteresting life you have.

Izzy_Caraway said,

March 18, 2006 @ 5:18 am

yeah 23 is a big step…… I seen your pictures and MY GOD you’ve gotten fat.

Ssweet_dreemzZ said,

March 18, 2006 @ 12:25 pm

Thirteen years?

ThatGuy_Matt said,

March 18, 2006 @ 7:39 pm

happy birthday
im back to xanga
stop by?

gotcha said,

March 19, 2006 @ 12:10 am

happy belated birthday.

Yamazakura said,

March 19, 2006 @ 6:19 am

But let’s face it…it really is just the next step to middle-aged boringness.

sphinx41 said,

March 19, 2006 @ 1:49 pm

After 21 the number doesnt matter anymore, its how old you act.
but, woot for free stuff on a birthday!  ( pain counts as free )

idealistic_idiot said,

March 20, 2006 @ 3:23 pm

Aww >

ManDiva said,

March 20, 2006 @ 4:00 pm

Hey there, I just wanted to say Happy Birthday!

webcammie said,

March 25, 2006 @ 9:31 am

Happy belated 23rd birthday, fellow 23’s =). 23 is such a great year…you’re no longer just a legal 21 who still wants to party hard and you are not quite at the “oh my gosh i am 25 and still don’t know what to do with my life” age bracket! =) Enjoy the year!

RSS feed for comments on this post · TrackBack URI

Leave a Comment